Is lack of sex in your marriage your fault or hers?

I’m on a roll today….  Intense situations…  Lots of pain.  Solutions.
“Bubble Girl”, one of my clients, gives an update on her situation.  2 years ago, her husband left her (and their 2 children) so he could pursue a better “sexually compatible” situation with a neighbor lady who he had gotten pregnant.
As might be expected, his new relationship did not work out as well as he had hoped.
Satan is a specialist in the area of “the grass is greener on the other side”, and sexual entitlement with men. 
Gentlemen, if you are experiencing sexual dis-satisfaction in your marriage, you may want to “look for the beam in your own eye, before you go looking for the mote in your woman’s eye.”
I do not trust the explanations of modern psychologists and or modern magazine covers that blame women for sexual dysfunction in relationships.  I am confident that the commonly promoted “recipe”s for female sexual activity are inaccurate and are giving men too many justifications for blaming women for things that are actually the fault of the man.
Gentlemen, if you would like to learn how to create a relationship where your wife is happily and regulary initiating sex, let me know.  You don’t need to destroy your family like Bubble Girl’s husband did in order to make things more enjoyable.

About Maurice W. Harker, LPC

Director of Life Changing Services, Director of Sons of Helaman, Facilitator of the WORTH group, Consultant for the Daughters of Light program.