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“BETRAYAL TRAUMA FOR DUMMIES”
An ONLINE workshop FOR MEN…
Your wife is hurting.
You are lost on how to help her.
You need help UNDERSTANDING
BETRAYAL TRAUMA.
For men who aim to bring more peace, comfort, stability, and trust into their marriages after trauma
A WELCOME note from our Facilitators:
Welcome to the Men’s “Understanding Betrayal Trauma” Workshop, playfully known as “Betrayal Trauma for Dummies”.
We understand that it takes a valiant man to address the impact of infidelity and to seek to mend the resulting betrayal trauma. If you’re here, it means you’re brave and devoted, ready to embark on a soulful and sacred journey, and we commend you.
This is a space of compassion, growth, and understanding – especially designed for men who have little to no comprehension about the profound effects of betrayal trauma. It’s not a place for ‘dummies’, but for courageous men ready to take responsibility and provide the necessary support for their partners.
Our workshop aims to take you from a place of unconscious incompetence to conscious competence. We want to help you understand what your partner is experiencing and foster a deep sense of empathy, leading to a more open, caring conversation and ultimately, healing.
We approach the topic with sensitivity, offering practical, scientific insights about the trauma’s impact and guiding you towards understanding and supporting the emotional experiences of your partner. This journey will take you from analytical to emotional, following the path that men often take to comprehend and process difficult circumstances.
Remember, this journey is not just about changing behaviors, but also about “changing hearts”. The nature and magnitude of this transformation could be one of the most challenging in your human experience. But rest assured, you are not alone.
Join us as we navigate this complex landscape of betrayal trauma recovery together, supporting each other through the miracles of repentance and forgiveness. Your dedication to this journey is the first step towards recovery. Welcome aboard.
Video Introductions: Finding HOPE for Couples
For a brief Introduction to the way we work with Betrayal Trauma. Here is an introductory parable to read: “Parable of the Southern Belle”
Listen to a PODCAST interview with the workshop facilitator, Seth Bowman. He shares the concepts he will be sharing in the training to help husbands understand what their wife is experiencing and the best ways to help her.
“Like Dragons Did They Fight” Podcast-Episode 155
Your understanding can grow with practice and intention
In The BETRAYAL TRAUMA FOR DUMMIES WORKSHOP You Will Learn...
- How to build and rebuild broken trust
- Ways to build your confidence in identifying and changing your behavior to rebuild your relationship
- How to respond skillfully to the complexities of betrayal trauma
- The importance of creating a continued growth plan and sharing this plan and vision with your spouse
- How betrayal trauma manifests physically, emotionally, and psychologically
- How your reactions can fuel or calm the situation
Meet your Workshop Facilitators
Seth Bowman
Seth Bowman is a life coach who has come up through the Men of Moroni program, gaining a deep understanding of its principals and how they can change lives. He is passionate about sharing the tools and knowledge that has changed his life and given him the power to choose the personal, marital, and family life he has always wanted. Coming from a place of darkness and despair, Seth wants to bring others out of the same personal prison that is built from hiding, lying, isolation, and addiction to fully live in the light. He says:
“Through my journey back to wholeness I have learned many principles and tools. I have come to understand how my actions have hurt and affected my wife. I have learned how and continue to learn more ways to support her through her journey and how to be the husband and father I always wanted to be. As a mentor and coach, I love helping other men to find these principles and tools that will help them to come out of the darkness of addiction and be able to support their wives as they deal with the effects of their actions. There is hope and healing available but it comes through understanding and seeing the pitfalls that litter the path back toward the light and learning how to navigate them.”
Maurice Harker
Maurice is the creator of the Marriage Repair Workshops and the accompanying multi-media, self-paced “Lazarus Lectures.” When combined, they provide a proven system for breathing life into nearly-dead marriages. He has watched many other couples experience the pain and anguish that you are experiencing, and he understands how taxing and challenging this is on anyone who has committed to an eternal marriage. He is familiar with your fear and your concerns.
Maurice has worked for over 30 years to discover and refine this Christ-centered training system that helps breathe life back into near-death marriages. The concepts and skills you will be learning are a carefully prepared synergy of Eternal Principles with Accurate Science. Over the last 17+ years, as a Clinical Mental Health Counselor, he has trained hundreds of couples to repair their relationships, many on the edge of death, and successfully navigate to the “Marital Promised Land.”
Maurice is the owner and founder of Life Changing Services, an organization of many service providers making available self-mastery training programs for individuals and training and healing for the whole family. He continues to work, on special arrangement, with individuals and couples working to repair and rebuild traumatized marriages, as a consultant.
WORKSHOP DETAILS
Husbands, are you struggling with the aftermath of your sexual disloyalty
and looking for a path forward with your wife?
Our “Betrayal Trauma for Dummies” Workshop is designed to:
– Help you understand the full extent of the
betrayal trauma
your wife is experiencing.
– Dismantle the myths that are keeping you from
progressing in your relationship.
– Develop a roadmap for recovery and healing with your wife.
Attend weekly LIVE online training with Seth Bowman and Maurice Harker.
Enrollment is for MEN in the US and Canada.
The weekly ONGOING Workshop curriculum is recycled and reviewed to accommodate enrollees to join at any time. Participate for as many weeks as you would like to attend (1 week or 52 weeks!).
Betrayal Trauma for Dummies is set up in a 2 hour block:
The WORKSHOP ONLY is held the 1st hour. Seth and Maurice will teach and train together.
(Billing is weekly. $25 per week for the WORKSHOP ONLY.)
Join Seth in the INTENSIVE 2nd hour session. You will review and discuss “real life” scenarios in a training and coaching format. Join interactive discussions to practice how to communicate, practice empathy and improve your listening skills as you work towards hope and healing with your wife.
(Billing is weekly. $55 per week for the WORKSHOP 1st hour PLUS the INTENSIVE 2nd hour.)
When you feel you have practiced, applied and mastered the tools and principles to find healing and hope in your relationship, feel free to contact us to withdraw from the Workshop.
Day & Time
Enrollees will receive a copy of the Workshop recording each week
ONGOING ENROLLMENT: Join at any time – Attend as long as you would like – Withdraw at any time
Your online learning PORTAL will contain the recordings of all the workshops to access anytime.
WEEKLY ONLINE WORKSHOP FOR MEN
TUESDAYS
Mountain Standard Time
LAUNCH DATE
TUESDAY, AUGUST 1ST
8 PM
WORKSHOP ONLY
9 PM
INTENSIVE
(Small Group Training & Coaching)
Would you like to Enroll
in the1-hour option and/or the 2-hour option?
SEE THE NOTE BELOW
Betrayal Trauma for Dummies is set up in a 2 hour block
Workshop ONLY & Workshop PLUS Intensive
The 1st hour (Workshop ONLY) is focused on training and instruction from Maurice Harker and Seth Bowman based on a prepared curriculum. Participant input and discussion will be welcomed, but limited.
($25 per week for 1st hour only)
The 2nd hour (Instensive) is for small group training and coaching with Seth Bowman.
This additional hour will be full of participation and discussion.
($55 per week for 1st hour AND 2nd hour.)
The INTENSIVE small group will be reviewing “real life” examples of how to improve communication, empathy, emotional intelligence, and connection in a relationship when a spouse
is hurting and in pain due to Betrayal Trauma.
REGISTER BELOW
HOW ONGOING ENROLLMENT WORKS:
- THIS ONLINE MEN’S WORKSHOP IS “ONGOING”.
- THE CURRICULUM AND PRINCIPLES ARE RECYCLED AND REVIEWED THROUGHOUT THE WORKSHOP WEEKS.
- ATTEND AS MANY WEEKS AS YOU WOULD LIKE TO ABSORB AND LEARN THE CONCEPTS & TOOLS.
- WHEN YOU FEEL YOU HAVE MET YOUR LEARNING GOALS, WITHDRAW FROM THE WORKSHOP.
- YOU WILL HAVE ACCESS TO THE RECORDINGS AND RESOURCES IN YOUR ONLINE PORTAL FOR LIFE.
- THE WORKSHOP IS DESIGNED FOR “JOINING AT ANY TIME”.
Investment
$ 25
/per week
- Weekly Workshop Only
- Access to Online Training Portal
- Receive weekly Workshop Recording
WORKSHOP
ONLY
ONLY
Investment
$ 55
/per week
- Weekly Workshop PLUS Intensive
- Access to Online Training Portal
- Receive weekly Workshop Recording
WORKSHOP
+ INTENSIVE
+ INTENSIVE
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I ask questions during the Workshop?
Absolutely! These sessions are for you. Bring your questions and participate throughout the 1st Hour Workshop with Seth and Maurice. Participation is welcomed but is somewhat limited due to the valuable and important information to share each week.
The Intensive session during the 2nd hour is immersive, interactive and discussion-led. The purpose of the Intensive session is to walk through real-life examples – in a small group setting – to practice and implement tools to improve communication, listening, empathy, emotional intelligence, understanding and recovery in your relationship. Seth will guide the discussion.
Can I get a recording of sessions I miss?
You will automatically receive a recording of each week’s Workshop ONLY session in your inbox each week whether you are able to attend the session or not. (Be sure to check your spam or junk folder if you do not receive your weekly recording email.)
You are encouraged to listen and review more than once to maximize your learning.
Your online learning PORTAL will contain the recordings of all the workshops, plus valuable resources and videos, etc. Upon enrollment, you will receive a link to set up your learning portal so you can access it anytime.
(NOTE: The Intensive – small group training and coaching – during the 2nd hour will not be recorded for sharing.)
Is this a 1 hour workshop or a 2 hour workshop?
This MEN’S Workshop is broken up into 2 hours—Workshop ONLY & Workshop PLUS Intensive. (Choose to enroll in just the 1st-hour Workshop OR Choose to enroll in BOTH hours to attend the Workshop AND the Intensive session.)
The 1st hour (Workshop ONLY) is focused on training and instruction from Maurice Harker and Seth Bowman based on a prepared curriculum. Participant input and discussion will be welcomed, but limited. ($25 per week for 1st hour only)
The 2nd hour (Instensive) is for small group training and coaching with Seth Bowman. This additional hour will be full of participation and discussion with the group and facilitator. ($55 per week for 1st hour AND 2nd hour.)
The small group will be reviewing “real life” examples of how to improve communication, empathy, emotional intelligence and connection in a relationship when a spouse is hurting and in pain due to Betrayal Trauma.
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