Working on Emotional Intimacy – Discussing the Past

Emotional Intimacy is one of the hardest phases of the entire process of rebuilding and repairing your marriage. You will need to be able to skillfully keep the Spirit present during conversations, and skillfully retreat and regroup if things start to fall apart.
Marriage Success Is Dependent on Being Willing To Do the Work

The Lazarus Lectures series was a game changer for us. My husband and I have struggled for most of our 23-year marriage. We have been through years of counseling, therapy, books, and tried just about everything you could think of. This was literally a fingers-crossed, “we don’t think anything can really help us but we […]
Our Marriage Needed A Miracle

I didn’t quite know what to expect when we started the Lazarus Lectures, but I am ecstatic to say that the results I was hoping for in our marriage are coming to fruition! When we began I don’t know that I would have said that our marriage needed to be “raised from the dead,” but […]
“My Marriage Was Not What I Thought it Was”

Some of you who are reading this may have been guided here for more education. “I’m Not Okay, You’re Not Okay, But That’s Okay” does just that. This FREE ebook goes beyond the modern science of relationship psychology to show you how eternal principles and divine power can be harnessed to heal your relationship. The principles from this book […]
“I give not because I have not, but if I had, I would give.”

One of the most telling indicators that a relationship is ready to make an attempt at Season 1: Courtship, is if both are healed enough and recovered enough to bring value into the relationship.
Marriage Repair and Applying the First Three of the 12 Steps

The following is just one of over 100 lessons taught in the Marriage Repair Workshop: The Lazarus Lectures – by Maurice W. Harker, CMHC and team.
What To Do When You Have an Inadequate Spouse

What to do when you are an inadequate spouse. What to do when you have an inadequate spouse. As I have experienced my personal agony of not being enough in many circumstances…