Letting our children have cell phones is like giving them venomous snakes and hoping they won’t get bit. Rationalizing or believing our children won’t wander into dangerous paths via technology is ignorant.
What does it mean to live a value-based lifestyle? How does that impact a person in their ability to function and become the person they want to be? How does it compare to living a shame-based lifestyle and having a shame-based recovery?
Imagine being a soldier back in the late 1960s. You have just finished boot camp, and because of your intelligence and skills, they assign you to be the leader of a team of a dozen soldiers. You are excited to go to war and fight for what is important to you! A helicopter dumps you […]
My name is Francesco and I am now 35. I grew up in Italy in a small town, where the church was organized in a small branch (30-40 people in sacrament meeting). Now i’m living in austria with my wife and 2 kids.
I started watching Porn when I was 11.
Sería bueno si pudiéramos esperar que nuestros seres queridos nunca estén expuestos a medios inapropiados. Desafortunadamente, hemos alcanzado una fase en la tecnología en la que ya no se trata de “si”, sino de “cuándo” y “cuánto”. Cada vez más trabajamos con personas tan jóvenes, como de 11 y 12 años, con exposición por primera […]
The correlation (not causation) of the overuse of pornography to criminal behavior. As a therapist who worked with the sex offender/general population I would do generalized assessments of each prisoner.
One of the hardest things to do is to stay motivated during down times or in the off season. I know because it is one of my biggest challenges. So, here are 4 simple ways to keep your fire burning: Take a break from whatever sport you compete in. “Absence makes the heart grow stronger.” […]
The importance of tracking progress, success and even failure. I was recently working with a young man who is trying to abstain from his pornography addiction as well as accomplish several other goals that will help him improve as a person. During our discussion, I asked if he marked his calendar everyday. He said no, and […]
Self-mastery scare in your home? Is there evidence of some unfortunate things invading your home and influencing your loved ones? Don’t wait to see if it gets worse.
To what level has your loved one slipped toward this addiction? Learn about the 4 levels of pornography use and what you can do about it to help a loved one.
I am now learning, that for quite some time, men have been praying the way farmers pray instead of the way warriors need to pray. Here is a warrior’s prayer.
My story to happiness. I have had this problem for over 7 years. I have tried very hard to beat this giant, but I simply did not have the skills to beat it forever. I even conquered it for half a year before. Then Satan attacked me and I felt as though I was overwhelmed […]
Parents, Church Leaders, Young Warriors: The urgency to provide effecting training for the war against sexual addiction motivates us to send you this letter. We hope this information will help with what Elder Holland encouraged in the October 2013 General Conference, “seek the advice of reputable people with certified training, professional skills and […]
[Review Chemical Scale for background on the different levels if they are unfamiliar to you.] Level 2 Mood Battles are usually very subtle, especially for men because we are not usually accustomed to paying attention to our feelings/moods. We were built to be thinkers (Level 3) and doers (Level 5). Satan knows this, so he […]
Text coaching: a powerful tool to help addicts stay on track and overcome frustration. Learn how and why it works well for young men with pornography challenges